SOCIETY HOLDING YOU BACK?

It’s easy to use society as a crutch.“I can’t become more productive because my colleagues laugh at me for making an effort, and besides, my boss won’t appreciate it anyway.”“I can’t stay faithful to my significant other because dating apps make it so easy to meet sexy people.” Is it the billboard, your colleagues, or…

LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH, SO WHAT ELSE IS NEEDED?

If you know me well enough. You’d have heard me say once or twice that ‘Love is not enough in a relationship’. People would ask me “if love isn’t enough, what is?” I initially used to say “understanding”. I used to think I was totally right until I was a bit jobless yesterday night and…

Here’s a thought…

If you’re looking for problems, you’ll find them. As soon as you ask yourself a question, your mind will actively begin to look for an answer. If the question is why do I feel this bad you’ll get plenty of reasons. Looking for the reasons you’re feeling so bad might not be the wisest idea….

Making A Difference

It really doesn’t take much to make a difference, just your uttermost commitment to making a positive difference. Making A positive difference doesn’t require your money, it only needs your positive mindset and acting towards this mindset. Clifton Bradley said Its time to start changing our Greed to Generosity Anger to Compassion and our Ignorance…

SOCIETY (NOT) HOLDING YOU BACK

It’s easy to use society as a crutch. “I can’t lose weight because there are billboards of fast food restaurants everywhere, and besides, I just got a free coupon for a burger.” “I can’t become more productive because my colleagues laugh at me for making an eITort, and besides, my boss won’t appreciate it anyway.”…

SELF HATERS DIGGING PUBLIC APPROVAL

I’ve met a lot of people who feel bad about themselves, then wonder why nobody enjoys being with them. You have to learn to like yourself before you can get others to like you. Once you do that, the next step is to focus on how you make them feel. Far too often in life,…

AFRICAN FEMINISM

​In recent time, I seldom write for public consumption especially in this age and stage of technological evolution and proliferation evident among others by the presence of social media because I HATE to engage in keyboard fight or virtual war because that is one of the easiest way to be misunderstood. I appreciate the liberty…

THE RAG DAY

Socially, there has been a trend going on for years, indulged in by students of higher institutions, its an avenue where students of all courses and disciplines come together, putting on clothes that are worn out or abnormal in state, mask their faces or paint them in scaring ways, they pick used tins of milk…

LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF

It’s what we all wanted when we were children- to be loved and accepted exactly as we were then, not when we got taller or thinner or prettier…and we still want it… but we aren’t going to get it from other people until we can get it from ourselves.

ARE YOU WHERE YOU WANT TO BE OR YOU ARE WHERE CIRCUMSTANCES LEADS YOU?

   Nothing good in life comes easy,” we’ve been told that a hundred times before. The good things in life we accomplish are defined by where we enjoy the suffering, where we enjoy the struggle. People want an amazing physique. But you don’t end up with one unless you legitimately love the pain and physical stress…

7 REASONS TO NEVER GIVE UP

​1. You Are Alive And You Can As long as you are alive you have no excuse to say you can’t. If you put your mind to it, you can do anything. Anything is possible. “ So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the…

STRUGGLE FOR SOLACE

A nation filled with gloominess, a people united by name but disintegrated in believe, thought and perspective. Where can we find solace? Is the cry